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On 21st Sep 2008 at 07:02 PM steph said...
hey all!
and chatting up my neighbour!! haha! or dancing outside and falling over my bins!! hahaha oh the memories are making me laugh so much right now .. and the excercises at 2am!! ok i wont give it all away here about wat mischief we got up to as will write a whole thing on our meeting and the skydive some time over the next couple of weeks so you can all see why i loves teresa so much and how much great mates we are.
loving the new site and looking forward to getting to chat with you all again and chatting to new people
whooohooo im so excited to be chatting bac on here and have missed teresa loads!! we have to meet again without some of the minor hitches
cant wait to hear from u all, and hopefully arrange to meet ya some time soon teresa xxxxxxxxxxxxx have miss'd ya loooooads!!
On 21st Sep 2008 at 07:57 PM steph said...
hi teresa ... congrates on the new site xxx
On 21st Sep 2008 at 10:33 PM steph said...
ok ... take 2, 3, 4 and skip a few .. teresa crashed the site lol i have submitted this i dont no how many times lol so fingers crossed!!! ....
hello all !! doesn't feel quite the same after i have technically said it once already but me being me i did it wrong some how.. or the fish just gettin his own bac as i never took it for a walk!! teresa will understand that lol!!!!
EDITED BY ADMIN LOL
look forward to chatting to you all again hehe!!
loves steph xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
On 21st Sep 2008 at 10:57 PM moomin said...
teresa has brken this site and im in hysterics!!! typicl!!
On 21st Sep 2008 at 11:30 PM Teresa said...
testing to see if my comments get approved and im the owner and the one approving them lol. I recon Steph broke the site
On 22nd Sep 2008 at 06:47 PM trish said...
hi guys good to see you are all ok
love to you all trisha xxxxx
On 23rd Sep 2008 at 04:24 AM Teresa said...
Hiya Trish and great to see you back
How are you?
The other night me and steph discovered an error on the site and the responses werent showing so Steph was posting so I could work out where the error was coming from
The site banned her as a spammer ha ha ha and the comments just on the blog section still isnt working as its not showing how many replies there are are. i blame steph and that fish of hers
On 23rd Sep 2008 at 04:24 AM Teresa said...
Hiya Trish and great to see you back
my webby was driven mad by us as we couldnt find the error and im sure he thought we were bonkers. He is a very patient man 
She done so many posts and when he fixed that error there was loads of posts and ive had to delete loads so readers dont get confused lol what a laugh and then she couldnt do anything as the site banned her as a spammer ha ha ha
How are you? The other night me and Steph discovered an error on the site and the responses werent showing on the blog section so Steph was posting so I could work out where the error was coming from. The comments just on the blog section still isnt working as its not showing how many replies there are . i blame steph and that fish of hers
I didnt chat her neighbour up at all lol Fantastic guy and oh my gawd what a trip. What started off as a charity jump became a rescue mission.
I borrowed my sons car as my alfa was being sorted out and the car stopped in the middle lane on a busy motorway. It just went into chitty chitty bang bang mode and stopped. AA came out and dumped me in the dark in an empty car park unless I paid around £380 to get me home. I was shocked as I didnt even know where I was. I rang my son to tell him and he had a go at me for breaking his car. Steph and her neighbour to the rescue and they lived at least an hour away (i'd been driving at least 3 hours). Steph and her neighbour rescued me. It was a fantastic trip even if it did take me about 8 hours to arrive. The funniest part was picking the car up and towing it back to Stephs. OMG what a journey. I've never been so scared in my life lol I made Steph come in the car as her neighbour sped down the motorway with us on tow. Had to laugh when we were almost there and he rang us to ask if he was going too fast lol The car was going faster on tow than it did when it was working. I recon towing at 70mph might of been a tad fast. We got back ok and we were both a nervous wreck as I sit here laughing.
Steph was like a bird in the sky and moomin springs to mind in her little hat. Her mum and dad were all emotional and so proud and I was fairly amused I have to say. Brilliant trip and I dont know anyone who would jump 10000 feet for charity and she hadnt even been in a plane before.
Happy Birthday Steph xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
On 23rd Sep 2008 at 11:31 PM steph said...
hello trish xxxx and teresa xxx and anyone else reading!! xxxxx
its great to hear from you again trish, how are you doing?
i have not really been up to much lately, well i have my own place now and have decided to go back to college and finish my Alevels .. so tackling that now!
well im now old!!! complete total of 19 years to date so far! have had a real nice day .. started the day with double biology followed by triple lesson of archaeology! but have been out for a lovely meal with my bf tonight .. had chinese .. and yes i felt the erge to use the chopsticks in a posh restaurant and threw food everywhere and got funny looks from the chinese woman!! i must say yes i went rather red and clashed with the colour of the place!! after that bac to his and watched the simpsons movie as had never seen it before .. its rather funny!!! so all in all it has been a good day and off back home tomoro to celebrate my sisters birthday! (technically today as it has gone past midnight!)
was sat thinking earlier about my next charity event and decided i should start trying to persuade teresa to do the wing walking with me next year, like now so have plenty time to work on her :D !!! and if anyone else has any other mad ideas for charity events and stuff then thats great .. and u culd also do it with us!! it would be great to do a site charity thing.
my fish waves hello to u all aswell even though he was blamed for crashing the site the other day! ooo and i got some lovely flowers today! pink roses! lol i keep making sure i have all this text saved as i tend to have to write each blog ten million times as do everything wrong atleast once each time!!!! but yeah anyway! i will write some more tomorrow as i think im rambling a bit!!!
nice hearing from u trish and tc .. and hugs to u teresa xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
On 24th Sep 2008 at 02:30 AM Teresa said...
I am happy to wing walk if someone donated £1000 up front to charity and thats for the plane to take off with me on the wing however as I know that is unlikely I am happy to wing walk with the plane either stationary or it can just roll around the take off strip and I will take any donations
Hope this is of some help xxx
On 24th Sep 2008 at 05:31 PM trish said...
hi steph and teresa and everyone else
im doing good and keeping busy working and raising the family but i think there at an age now where the think im interfering so i have felt a bit aboandoned by them but hey they are boys lol
oh a fishy wave back and my dog says woof woof lol
on the 12th of october i have been quit for a whole year (smoking) so me and the hubby are going out for a meal to celerbrate.
well i havnt done anything as exciting as steph but she deserves all the glory as you are a super lass and im proud of you love
hey back to the studies thats brill
love to you all
trisha xxxxx
On 29th Sep 2008 at 01:59 PM Admin said...
Well done!
On 3rd Oct 2008 at 07:17 PM steph said...
WOW well done on the quitting smoking!! i keep trying but keep failing lol and maybe it a good time to start again with the current chest infection lol meh!
i have only a few more weeks with my socil worker and then leave the systems completrly which i am looking forward to but also nervous aboout. Going to be strange not having the security of someone meeting with me each week but i suppose its a big step in the right direction. im going to go and see teresa soon again which i am very much looking forward to :D jack aint though lol a week without me aww! poor him! we are both setting oout plans to move over to america by the end of next year so sorting plans for that aswell but his parents and my parents are both supporting us with it and helping us out as we will both be applying to the universities over there, college is going great and managing to keep up with it all and actually understand it all this year lol! im still shocked my internet is working whist driving on the motorway (im not driving obviously lol) never been this far north before!! whooop whooop!! just wish i wasnt ill through it! but hey cant have it all!
on way to blackpool at the mment for the blackpool illuminations! well its taken 7 hours so far and got aboout another hour to go! and have been to alton towers aswell today and nemisis broke down whilst we were on it lol!
so how are you doing trish? been good to hear from u
hope to hear from you soon trish and talk to you laters teresa xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
big hugs n lots of love xxxxxxxxx
On 24th Oct 2008 at 04:27 PM Patricia Watson said...
hi all
im doing ok steph working hard and keeping buisy. i am so pleased to see you are doing really well now and wish you all the best for the future as i know you will be the best.
at the mo im sufferering with a big cold which has decided to remove my voice lol.
but other than that all is well.
speek to you soon
love trisha xxxx
On 25th Oct 2008 at 09:10 AM steph said...
hey trish xxx
xxxxxx
sorry to hear u have a big cold! things have changed slightly and yes im staying in the uk, well fighting for my education at the moment as have been told by the housing people that i get no help, for aslong as im in education, for my flat. oh and back to being single .. and blackpool didnt go all that well either, and crashed on the way home aswell going onto the M6..luckily everyone was ok. oh and im not being discharged from the services for another 10months now lol so basically ignore my last post as its all wrong now!!
but other than that well i dont quite no yet lol i should really get up and go out and do something but then lying in bed all day does seem a good plan also!! well my flat needs tidying really .. any volenteers?
so how are things going for everyone else? better than mine i hope lol !
take care all
love steph
On 9th Nov 2008 at 01:16 PM Patricia Watson said...
hi steph
oh love im so sorry that things arnt too good but looking at the date you wrote this im hopeing that things are a little better. my cold has gone now and ive got my voice back so things are on a normal streak
ok whats normal lol
work is going well and the kids are at last behaving them selves hows things with you steph
cant wait to hear from you love
take care
love trisha xxxxxx