Document for parents going through the forced adoption system
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On 28th Mar 2009 at 02:53 PM CAROLINE said...
THE SOCIAL WORK ARE CORRUPT,AND SEEM TO BE ABLE TO MAKE UP WHAT EVER THEY LIKE,I AM CURRENTLY GOING THROUGH FORCED ADOPTION AND ITS TEARING ME APART,THE SOCIAL WORKER MHARI MORRISON SEEMS TO BE ABLE TO LIE WHEN EVER SHE PLEASES,HER SUPPORT FROM THE BEGINNING WAS NOT THERE,I CANNOT BELEIVE I AM LEFT IN THIS POSITION,I LOVE MY SON DEARLY AND AM ONE OF THE BEST MOTHERS YOU COULD HAVE YES IVE MADE MISTAKES,BUT NOT TO THE EXTENT WHERE MY SON HAS SUFFERED ANY KIND OF ABUSE,MAY I ADD THIS IS THE FOURTH LITTLE BOY THAT HAS BEEN REMOVED FROM THERE MOTHERS CARE BY HER IN THE SAME AREA,THE LAST TIME I SEEN HIM WAS IN OCTOBER,I WAS SUPPOSED TO HAVE ONCE A WEEK CONTACT NOT LEFT TO THE DISGRETION OF SOCIAL WORK SHE COULD ONLY APOLOGISE FOR THIS,THEN REDUCED TO ONCE EVERY THREE WEEKS SHE SAYS MY SONS BEHAVIOUR BECOMES WORSE WHEN HE SEES ME,NO THE POINT IS I HAVE NOT SEEN HIM,HE IS MISSING HIS MUMMMY,AND IS FRUSTRARED BEING PASSED ABOUT IN THIS CORRUPT SYSTEM,I WILL NEVER GIVE UP FIGHTING AS I KNOW SHE WILL HAVE TO LIE IN COURT,IM ANGRY AND FRUSTRARED AS NOONE WILL LISTEN TO WHAT I HAVE TO SAY IM HIS MUMMY,AND FEEL I HAVE NOT BEEN GIVEN THE CHANCE,ITS TEARING MY WHOLE FAMILY APART,AND I CANT SEE A WAY TO GET HIM BACK,HE IS MY WORLD,I WANT HIM TO COME HOME,I HOPE SOMEONE OUT THERE IS READING THIS AND MAYBE GOING THROUGH THE SAME ANY ADVICE OR COMMENTS WOULD BE HELPFUL THANKYOU FOR READING THIS ALL I WANT IS MY SON BACK.
On 1st Apr 2009 at 09:51 AM lorraine newhill said...
I AM LIVING PROOF THAT SOCIAL SERVICES LIE IN THE COURT ROOM AND GET AWAY WITH IT. THEY ARE FULLY PROTECTED BY THE LEGAL SYSTEM. THERE IS NO JUSTICE FOR FAMILIES IN THE FAMILY COURTS.. YOUR GUILTY AND THATS THAT..
FOR SPEAKING OUT ABOUT THE ILLEGAL SNATCHING OF MY GRANDDAUGHTER BY SOCIAL SERVICES, I WAS BROUGHT BEFORE A JUDGE IN BIRMINGHAM HIGH COURT AND GIVEN A 18 YEAR GAGGING(SUPRESSION)ORDER.. I HAVE ALSO HAD THREATS FROM SOCIAL SERVICES LEGALS STATING IF I POST ANY INFORMATION ABOUT MY CASE, WITH OUT ANY WARNING I WILL BE ARRESTED AND THE SUPRESSION ORDER WILL BE ENFORCED… BUT WHATS NEW, SOCIAL SERVICES SEEM TO BE ABLE TO FORCE ADOPTION ON FAMILIES THAT OBJECT.. FORCE SEEMS TO BE THEIR WAY..
AND ALL I WANTED WAS MY GRANDDAUGHTER BACK WITH IN HER FAMILY UNIT.
ITS TIME THE WHOLE SYSTEM HAD A SHAKE UP. MAGISTRATES SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED TO DEAL WITH CHILD CASES. AFTER ALL THEY ARE ONLY BUISNESS PEOPLE.. ALL FAMILIES SHOULD HAVE THE RIGHTS TO A FAIR HEARING, AND THE RIGHTS TO HAVE THEIR EVIDENCE HEARD..
SOCIAL SERVICES ARE THE BREAKERS OF FAMILIES NOT THE MAKERS..
On 3rd May 2009 at 11:46 PM PETRA LOVELL said...
I LOST MY SON TO ADOPTION 7MTHS AGO A PROFESSIONAL MINUTES MEETING WAS HELD AND THE DEPUTY MANAGER OF THE NURSERY I WAS GOING TO FOR ASSESSMENTS LIED AT THE MEETING YOUR RIGHT SOCIAL SERVICES ARE CORRUPT. SOCIAL SERVICES ARE HAVING THESE MINUTES MEETINGS AND ARE KEEPING US PARENTS SOLICITORS OUT OF THE MEETING SO THEY CAN GET AWAY WITH WRONGLY ADOPTING OUR CHILDREN
On 6th May 2009 at 03:14 PM Lorraine said...
social services are policed by themselves. they are a law unto themselves.. they are protected by the courts and the government..
when a child is snatched by these evil money grabbing animals, there is very little chance of getting them back.. as soon as a child/children are in their care, twin tracking rules in one favour. ADOPTION.
We the families of these children are not allowed to speak out about these cases. freedom of speach is now sadly a thing of the past and over ruled by suppression orders ( gagging orders) there is only one law that stands and thats the law of social services.. there is NO JUSTICE in the court system anymore..
On 20th May 2009 at 09:13 PM WAYNE BARRETT said...
MY CHILDREN HAVE JUST BEEN STOLEN AND PLACED FOR ADOPTION THROUGH THE LIES OF THE SOCIAL SERVICES AND CAFFCASS.I HAVE RECORDINGS OF THE SOCIAL SERVICES MAKING THREATS TO US AS WELL AS THE LIES.I HAVE ALL THE EVIDENCE TO PROVE THEY STOLE MY CHILDREN ON LIES BUT NO ONE WILL LISTEN.ALL THE STRESS OF OUR CASE MADE ME COLLAPSE AND END UP IN INTENSIVE CARE BEING IN A COMA ON A LIFE SUPPORT MACHINE MY FAMILLY NOT NOWING IF I WOULD DIE.DIDNT STOP THESE EVIL S/S THEY RAN AROUND AND SNATCHED MY CHILDREN WHILST IN A COMA .HOW SICK.YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE.. THE EVIL S/W…AND YES LETS NOT FORGET YOU CATHY YOU SEEM TO HAVE A PROVEN TRACK RECORD IN OUR AREA FOR LYING AND SNATCHING CHILDREN .YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE A CHILDRENS GUARDIAN.ALL I CAN SAY IS YOU ARE ALL EMPTY CANNISTERS AND CANT HAVE YOUR OWN CHILDREN SO YOU GO ON TO STEAL OTHER PEOPLES.MAKE THE MOST OF YOUR LIES AS TRUTH IS COMMING QUICKER THAN YOU THINK…
On 28th May 2009 at 05:28 AM ian josephs said...
THE GOLDEN RULES!!
Do PLEASE remember the golden rules: (By all means print this off and keep the copy near at hand if SS approach! Show these rules to your lawyer or social worker to prove that you KNOW your rights!)
REMEMBER THESE EVEN IF YOU FORGET EVERYTHING ELSE I HAVE ADVISED!
1: NEVER contact social services (child protection) for help or advice. Usually you should not report a partner who batters you or even a stranger who sexually assaults your young child, as if you do the SS will as often as not take your children into care (and later for adoption) to “protect them” from risk! If they have your children and you are fighting to get them back, NEVER NEVER tell social workers how you think you are going to defeat them, or what you are going to do next!Remember, without mentioning it to “them”, that even if your children are “in care” social workers do not have the legal power to stop your children going to a call box to phone you,from going to any public library and emailing you, or even meeting you for a meal as long as they return “home” to the fosterers afterwards!
Care home girl abused by 25 men in 2 years
Source: Daily Mail Published: 27th August 2006
A 14-year-old girl placed in a council children’s home was prostituted to a group of depraved middle-aged men because staff were powerless to stop her going out. The horrific story of ‘Becky’ is highlighted in a BBC programme presented by Fiona Bruce this week which reveals how she was sexually abused by 25 men over two years - despite being known to social services and having been placed on the Child Protection Register.
Even when she was put in a children’s home - six months after her earliest allegations of abuse -staff allowed her to be used as a prostitute for fear their intervention might infringe her human rights. If the “SS” cannot prevent a young girl in their care from working as a prostitute then surely they cannot prevent other young people they “care for” from spending the day with parents if they so choose!Remember also that children of school age have a break so you can call them and speak to them through the railings without trespassing and nobody can stop you except a judge by serving a court injunction on you that will be too late to stop you reminding your children of their real family !
2: Never believe a word “they” say and always insist they put their promises down in writing. Always be pleasant and polite to social workers,but never forget they are your ENEMIES ! Remember that they may deliberately try to provoke you into shouting or violence that they will exaggerate in court leaving you with a criminal record and no children! When they shout at you forget your “pride” and look very hurt saying “why are you being like this to me?” or “I thought you were so nice until now, please don’t bully me!” Be very respectful “tongue in cheek”, but remember THEY ARE NOT POLICE so never follow their “helpful advice” especially if they say your only chance of getting your children back is to split from a partner, or parent you love and respect! They will try and turn you against each other as the “divide and rule” principle makes sure you are confused and demoralised when you lose your case and your children too! Quite often they arrange deliberately awkward contact times with your children. This can result first in the loss of your job and then as a consequence of that, your accommodation also. Object firmly and forcefully in court to their plans and fight hard to keep your job and your house or appartment.
3: NEVER, NEVER, NEVER sign any documents they present to you, even if they say “you have to!” Social Workers rely on BLUFF. In reality they have NO POWER and no right to threaten you or give you orders of any kind! Only a COURT via an order from a judge can give you orders, and you always have the opportunity to contest those orders in court either before or after they are given to you. No matter what threats,or promises they make, you can be 100% sure that if you get intimidated into signing they will break their word and expect you to keep your’s! So, DO NOT SIGN! Answer “yes”, “no” or “I don’t know” to questions WITHOUT further explanations that could be twisted to be used against you! If the “SS” do not have enough evidence against you do not “cooperate” by supplying them with what they need even if they threaten you.If your enemies run out of ammunition ,do NOT send them over a box of bullets to help them out ! Once the SS have applied for a care order remember their main object is NOT the welfare of the child ,it is to WIN their case against you ! Disregard any threats that you must “do as they tell you “. Be polite and even apologetic when you refuse to obey them !
4: Never, never agree to let your children go into foster care (especially if they say it is TEMPORARY OR VOLUNTARY) Never “agree” the thresholds even if you are advised that this will ensure the return of your children, because if you do you will have admitted neglecting or abusing your child and the only question left will be to decide if you have really repented and are capable of “change”! Usually the answer is no! Sometimes your own lawyer may tell you to agree the thresholds and/or agree to an interim care order otherwise “you will never see your children again! “That is a wicked lie designed to save the lawyers work and to help you LOSE your children! Sometimes lawyers will tell you there is no need for you to give evidence as they will speak for you; that way you may find you have lost your children very quickly without being allowed to say a word, so BEWARE!Most of the “legal aid lawyers” in the family courts are rightly known in the trade as “PROFESSIONAL LOSERS”!! Many of them pretend to work for you when in fact they are really on the side of the Local Authority. Sack your lawyers and represent yourself if they will not let you speak! Never admit to social workers (who are your ENEMIES) that you have been at fault in even the smallest possible way,(they certainly will never admit to you that they were ever at fault!). You must never lie in court, but you should never never admit to any fault on your part unless forced to do so by a direct “yes or no” type question in court. You must never disobey a court order by taking abroad a child already in care, but if you are pregnant and threatened neither a court nor the “SS” can stop you leaving the country before the baby is born! Sweden and Ireland are good choices!
5: When possible refuse to be assessed by so called “experts, “(psychiatrists, therapists, psychologists, counsellors, professionals, and the like) unless your children are returned first as otherwise the process will take place in an artificial atmosphere with you as parents emotionally distressed because your children have been taken. Remember that if the “SS” insist on these assessments their sole purpose is to gather sufficient evidence to help them win their case against you in court!If you talk a lot and do not listen to them they will say you have mental problems or “PERSONALITY DISORDERS”,so be “quiet and attentive” during assessments. Try not to answer questions with more than 5 or 6 words (they write down anything unhelpful you may let slip). Try indeed to answer “yes” or “no” whenever possible. NEVER COMPLAIN NEVER EXPLAIN! Complaints are a waste of time and divert you from the more important task of keeping or recovering your children. Never explain or elaborate when questioned as this only gives extra material to those who wish to discredit you. Never make angry personal attacks on anybody or threaten to sue the “SS” or police at a later date, as it just makes YOU sound bad.They may even seize on your resentment as an excuse to diagnose you with PARANOIA ! Your whole tone must be one of “sweetness and light” regretting that your children were mistakenly taken and that THEY (not you) suffered harm and anguish as a result! Your whole case must be that YOUR CHILDREN have suffered harm (not yourself) and that you are taking action for their sake not for your own! If you are accused of “being unable to work with the professionals”, reply that you will work 100% with them if they say their objective is to reunite your family by eventually returning your children, but that it is unfair to expect you to work with anyone whose objective declared to the court is to put your children into care or worse still have them adopted!Remember that the SS often “brainwash” children in care by telling children in care that their mother is too ill to care for them or worse still does not love them or want them any more, but when they are adopted they will have a lovely new “for ever mummy and daddy”! Make sure you tell the children that wicked people have stolen them for money and that you will never stop fighting to get them back ! Whisper in their ears or calmly make the statement in spite of horrified supervisors Even children as young as 3 will remember all their lives such a brutal but necessary message. Vital however it is, as it will eventually make a stable adoption impossible to sustain !Your reluctantly adopted children will as a result seek you out and come back to you in the end !
6: Protect yourself against social workers barging uninvited into your home by fitting a small chain inside your front door. This means that if you do not unlatch the chain when you see who is calling that person would have to push the door hard enough to break the chain which would be a “forced entry “and a criminal offence if committed without a document from the court such as a “recovery order” specifically allowing entry using reasonable force. Unless they intend to actually arrest someone or have good reason to believe someone in the house is in danger of severe physical harm, police also would have to have a warrant before breaking the chain. Usually they will not have one and would have to convince a judge that a serious crime had been or was about to be committed before one was granted.
7: If social services request a look at your medical records (probably to try and find something to discredit you) ALWAYS write to any doctor or psychiatrist that has seen you as follows:
“I respectfully request you to keep all my medical notes strictly confidential as I intend to take legal proceedings against social services and any other persons who might obtain my medical details without my express authorisation”.
8: Never write a letter to anyone connected to Social Services as you might include something that could damage your case in the family court. Only accept a solicitor if he/she promises to allow you a free hand to speak in court! You should be asked this simple question in the witness box “Have you anything you would like to say to the court?” Without this promise you may be “gagged” and as already explained in Rule 4 you can lose your case without being allowed to say a word!
Represent yourself if you can, but if you really do need the assistance of “professionals” the following contacts can be useful!
USEFUL CONTACTS:
(If your cause is just these professionals really will be on your side not that of social services !)
Children’s Advocates who fight for the right of children to be heard and listened to if they are old enough.
Click onto http://www.nyas.net
SOLICITORS:
William Bache & Co
(best for criminal cases in my opinion)
The Clock Tower
4 Oakridge Office Park
Whaddon
Salisbury
Wiltshire
SP5 3HT
Tel +44 (0)1722 711719
Fax +44 (0)1722 713370
DX 46152 AMESBURY
Email .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address) .uk
or use the form below to contact us direct
BARRISTERS:
Barrister DARREN WATTS
TANFIELD CHAMBERS, 2-5 WARWICK COURT,
LONDON WC1R 5DJ
Tel (0207) 431-5300
Barrister ANDREW SCOTT
described by “The Telegraph” as ” the people’s champion
http://www.parklaneplowden.co.uk
Parklane Plowden
Tel: 0844 499 5678
Barrister Dr JOHN FOX
Chambers of Ami Feder,
Ground Floor,
Lamb Building,
Temple,
London EC4Y 7AS
DX 1038 (Chancery Lane)
Tel: 020 7797 7788
Fax: 020 7353 0535
e-mail: .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address)
Out of hours tel: 07721 339232
PSYCHOLOGIST: Dr LOWENSTEIN tel 02380692621 and website = http://www.drludwigfredlowenstein.com
Dr Peter Dale (parent assessor)
Email: .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address)
Phone from UK: (01424) 424504
Phone international: +44 1424 424504
Fax: 08700 941 477
To sack your solicitor and your barrister just download form N434 !If you do not do this the court will usually send all future correspondence and sometimes vital statements of evidence to your solicitor even though you have told all concerned that you wish to represent yourself.
N434 - Notice of change of solicitor (Court Service) Download Form N434, Notice of change of solicitor, Court Service Forms, Administrative Court.
On 28th May 2009 at 11:00 AM wayne barrett said...
TO ALL FAMILYS SUFFERING AT THE HANDS OF THE CORRUPT SYSTEM.I WENT TO THE LOCAL COUNCILS WEEKLY MEETING YESTERDAY AND GOT A MAJORITY VOTE TO HAVE MY CASE LOOKED AT.I ASK ALL PARENTS TO NAME AND SHAME THESE CRIMINALS NONE OF US AS PARENTS WANT TO BE HELD IN FEAR OF PRISON BUT ASK YOURSELVES THIS HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE SAID IN THE PAST YOU WOULD DIE FOR YOUR KIDS..SO DO IT NAME AND SHAME THEM.THE GOVERMANT WILL ONLY CHANGE THE SYSTEM IF WE SPEAK OUT..ITS NO GOOD SUFFERING IN SILENCE..POST THE PROOF OF WHAT THE S/S ARE DOING TO YOU ALL OVER YOUR COMUNITY NAMING THOSE INVOLVED..
On 30th May 2009 at 05:47 PM edward lee said...
my partner went into hospital to give birth in nov 2007…when we arrived at the hospital a social worker called delarea fin**** attended telling my partner that if we did not hand over our daughter she would be placed in care..my partner said she wants me to look after our daughter.the ss said she may be harmed if she is not and invented the idea that i had a criminal record which concerned children.this was the first time ss had lied to try and obtain my daughter.we decided to place our daughter with a family member which ss did not like demanding she should be in care..the next day my partner gave birth to our beautiful little boy 8lb 11oz two weeks later we took our little boy home to start a new life.the next day family aid turned up to see us to make sure we are coping which we were.within 10 mins they left making a phone call to the social worker that our son had no feeds,they never even checked our cupboards if they had they would of seen the feeds.sw came down knocked on the door before i said come in she was already in looking at my cupboards,she then turned around and said 10 boxes of cow and gate was not enough that we needed more.she proberly does not know how much a box cost.she then left and said she will be back..on the next visit the ss and family aide bullied my partner telling her she is fat and sweats alot they even commited that they did not think it appropiate to have magnolia walls in our home…when my son was 8 months old he bumped his head on the cot which is normal for any child of his age.family aid told social services and they in return told the police.we were taken down to brighton for our son to be examined when we arrived the social worker introduced me to a police officer.my son was examinrd and ss was told its normal for any child to fall down.over the months the bullying got worse and worse we went through 5 sw as they were being changed.one day family aide visited beginning of dec 2008 when they walked in they found a dummy on the floor.they quickly rang the social worker within a week we were called to court so they can remove our child.our son was put on an intramun care order with contact and have reports done.we have done everything the court ordered.we have contact at first with one family aide then a second was introduced.at the care plan we were told its because i got aggressive in contact.that was never the case and never happened.i recently found out that ss have told doctors independant sw what to write.i have read all the reports and are 100% lies to discredit me and my partner saying they strongly recomend our son to be adopted.i beleive all the services are one and they are into there jobs for money.half of the ss proberly dont have children of their own so if they tell you they know how you feel its a lie.we both are loving parents and dont want to face life without our son debbie russ*** delarea fin**** lindsey how**** natasha k**** social workers family aide barbra s**** syliva se***** these people are the worst of the worst.my advice to anyone who has these people involved is dont tell them anything these people if you can call them that are out to damage your lives.just remember ss have numbers on a target which they have to reach and will do what it takes to reach their target oh yes not to mention they get a percentage in their pay cheque for every child they have adoped or in care so now you know how they pay for their flash cars houses holidays..its the proceeds of our loved children